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Of Eating Paula’s Crème Filled Muffin
After posting last week’s entry into the Our Decades of Open Marriage series, I told my wife that I’d totally forgotten most of the...

Professor Polyamory
Nov 4, 20236 min read


Book Review: Insatiable Wives: Women who stray and the men who love them
Note: As I am starting on doing reviews of resources, I thought I should post some of the book reviews I’ve done for prior blog...

Professor Polyamory
Jun 10, 20233 min read


Open Marriage is not a Fuck Fest
One day about six years ago, Paula and I were talking to another couple and something came up about the number of sexual partners she's...

Professor Polyamory
Mar 12, 20236 min read


Why Couples Have Open-Marriages
Some time ago I read a blog that noted that while the idea of open relationship has some acceptance in the general community, the...

Professor Polyamory
Mar 2, 20224 min read


A Threesome: Gateway to a Sexually Open Relationship
I find it interesting that the most common thing Paula and I were asked about when we spent more time with teens and young adults was...

Professor Polyamory
Jan 22, 20227 min read


Our Decades of Open Marriage: Part 31 & 32
Charles Paula increased her dating through the winter of 2011-12 and while she had sex with some of the guys, it was never of any...

Professor Polyamory
Jan 13, 202213 min read


Threesome Ethics
One day this question was presented to me on my blog. I’m hoping you can direct me to some of the discussions you mentioned about the...

Professor Polyamory
Nov 4, 20217 min read


Open Marriage: What about the Children?
To those who are new here, I have 20+ years in working with families and children professionally and have a PhD in this field. Many...

Professor Polyamory
Sep 5, 20215 min read


Our Decades of Open Marriage: Part 16
The Risks of Open Marriage Come Home Though I have alluded it the risks of a polyamorous open marriage, I have not gone down that path in...

Professor Polyamory
Apr 22, 20216 min read


Of MMF and FFM Threesomes
It is very strange but explainable that when engaging in a threesome with two women and one man it is quite normal for the women to touch...

Professor Polyamory
Jan 5, 20217 min read


Regarding Children, Open-Marriage, and Ethical Duty
In this blog, I promote a polyamory type of open-marriage. Swinger type open marriages are most often kept a complete secret from the...

Professor Polyamory
Dec 29, 20205 min read


Of Erotic Love, Familial Love and Marriage
Some anthropologist contend that humans, prior to the advent of sustained agriculture (about 6,000 years ago), had not conceived of the...

Professor Polyamory
Nov 10, 20206 min read


Of the Marriage Part of Open Marriage
One of our wedding photos from 1986 In advocating for a sexually open model of marriage, sometimes it is possible to lose site of the...

Professor Polyamory
Oct 18, 20204 min read


Of Children and Polyamory
On this website I openly support polyamory type of open-marriage. Swinger type open marriages are most often kept a complete secret from...

Professor Polyamory
Oct 1, 20205 min read


The Ethical Threesome
One day this question was presented to me on my blog. I’m hoping you can direct me to some of the discussions you mentioned about the...

Professor Polyamory
Sep 20, 20207 min read


Polyamory Makes Camelot Better
I Propose a Better Version of Camelot by including Polyamory The story of King Arthur is essentially a Shakespearian type tragedy. King...

Professor Polyamory
Sep 5, 20204 min read


Adultery & Fornication: What do those words mean in the New Testament?
One of our funniest open-marriage memories is from twenty years ago. We were laying in bed with another couple in the afterglow of...

Professor Polyamory
Aug 26, 20208 min read


A Few Thoughts On Our Open Marriage
The concept of an open marriage was first popularized in the United States during the 1970’s. In 1972 a book by that name was published...

Professor Polyamory
Aug 22, 20206 min read


Of the Incompatibility of Polyamory and Critical Theory
This contents of the essay have become more important now that Critical Theory, in the form of Critical Race Theory (CRT), has come to...

Professor Polyamory
Aug 2, 202012 min read
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