Paula Gives Me a Special Homecoming In January of 1998, I took a group of high school juniors and seniors from the Christian School where...

Note: As I read over this chapter to post it here, over twenty years have passed since the events. In some ways our lives back then were...

A Fourth of July Has Sexual Fireworks For some time prior to the July fourth weekend of 1997 Paula and I had been talking to Dianne and...

Our First Trip to a Swing Club Photo of Paula taken in the winter of 97/98 at Dianne's home As winter of 1997 progressed into spring, we...

The concept of an open marriage was first popularized in the United States during the 1970’s. In 1972 a book by that name was published...

Paula & Dianne Paula and I at our home pool. Please take note of my flowers. I worked hard on the garden. Our home pool was ready for use...

Our First Open-Marriage Experience In 1996 I took a job running a branch of a multi-faceted Christian ministry. The job required a move...

Paula Becomes More Comfortable Despite the fact we were engaging in what, we thought, were edgy and provocative sex practices during our...

The Lake We Can’t Forget (because it left us a permanent reminder) I took a job with a Christian ministry located outside of Charlotte,...

On our wedding day I was still a virgin and our first love making turned out to be as much comic as romantic. To understand why, I'll...

Before I start I must say these are recollections of our activities over the years. I have written this as accurately as I can without...